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Your sustantial competitor is you!

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By: Nobukhosi Tshabalala Twitter: @n_tshabalala_ Email address: ayakhosi32@gmail.com Picture copyright We often fall into the trap of comparing wi t h other s . I often see this in my work with young people . Unfortunately , many adults continue to compare and compete with others throughout their li v e s . When t hey see someone o wn s a bigger house, or a bett er car, or makes more money, or has a " perfect family " , or has some qualit ies they want, they will st a rt chasi n g in their minds Some thin g that o ther p eo p le ha ve . There is nothing wrong with a pprec i at ing others or allowing o th e r s to inspire us, but dont fall into the trap of comparing them to them. Remember, w e have to make a real comparison with who we were yesterday. The tal en t in the mirror is the real op p onent . W hen you go to bed every night , ask yourself : "How a m I today than yesterday? " Are you becoming a better person? Are ...

We won't recover from our pain, okay...

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By: Nobukhosi Tshabalala Twitter: @n_tshabalala_ Email address: ayakhosi32@gmail.com It will never be the same  2018 April 20 changed my whole life. D eath ,  pa i n and  all those who m you look at to especially  family would say : "W ho are you? ", "W hat are you doing? ", "W here were you at that moment ? ", "W hen did you bec o me someone who I don ' t know? " "W hy n o t b y m y sid e? " A nd "H ow can I count on you? " After death, many people felt isolated and misunderstood. Shot down by friends and community, you can say, at least I have my family. w hy not? Family members must accompany each other. For many people, relatives have always been their burden s on the ground and a beacon in the wind and rain. Picture copyright It is proven that daughters have more intense grief responses than sons, but men who lose their parents may be slower to move on . “Males tend to sho...